32 week question:
Favorite and least favorite part of the 2nd trimester:
When is baby most active? For a long time baby was most active in the early morning, between 5 – 6:30 am or so. Then it was less predictable and just kind of whenever I was sitting still enough to feel it. Now it’s pretty much allll the time. I think she’s getting big enough that most of her movements bring her into contact with the uterine wall so I’m feeling a LOT. Big movements happen when I’m sitting or laying down, but unless I’m walking or dancing, I’m pretty much always feeling some sort of fluttery bumps.
What baby preparations are you most excited about?
In terms of baby preparations, I think I’m mostly feeling frustrated that I don’t have more time to spend on getting the house ready and really nesting. I wish I had the ability to have taken this term off to get ready and really focus on baby and home– not that I’m not still loving being in school, but I’m losing focus on academics and wishing for more dedicated prep time. With that said, I am excited about getting some large pieces of furniture out of the house so that we’ll be able to rearrange the house both to make room for more baby stuff and to make sure Darwin can feel like she has her own space as well. Other than that, I’m trying to prepare myself mentally for labor. I have been less and less active so I’m feeling slightly anxious about being physically prepared, but I’m feeling very positive about labor. Baby is in the optimal position already– with any luck she’ll stay there– so I’m really just trying to stay positive and focused on making sure what little exercise I’m getting is supportive of optimal fetal positioning and all that. Pretty soon we’ll have to start gathering things for the birth (towels, almond oil, mattress protector, etc) and that’s an exciting thought, but I’m also not really even there yet. It’s like I don’t have the mental bandwidth to think about school AND teaching AND getting the house in order AND getting ready for the actual birth, so it’s triage right now. Get through what needs to be done first, and hope we don’t run out of time.
Is there anything you want to do before the baby comes that will be more difficult with two?
I assume everything is going to be harder with two, but as I mentioned above, I don’t feel like I have the time to get everything done before the birth as it is, since I’ll be 37 weeks by the end of finals week, so I’m not really even letting myself think about all the things I wish I could do. I want to take Darwin to the coast and to the aquarium, I want to soak up all the time with her that I can because I know I’m going to miss our special Darwin-MamaLee time so much, but I feel so overwhelmed by all the things I have to get done in the next 5 to 10 weeks that I just can’t let myself go there too often without it making me really sad– and my emotions are such that it takes very little to make me cry these days so I’m just going to stop there.
About the baby:
Size: 3.8 lbs (THAT’S ALMOST 4 POUNDS!), 16.7 inches long.
Fun fact: If the Bee were born today, she would almost certainly be healthy and ready to grow!
From the other mama: The third trimester has been the most fun for me so far. The Bee bump is big enough that I can regularly feel kicks, and the countdown (6-10 weeks!!!) is making it feel super real. I also love how much Darwin is engaged in this pregnancy. She regularly will spontaneously hug and kiss Leah’s belly, say “I love you sister”, and grins when the Bee gives kicks that she can feel. It helps me feel like this close spacing will be a good thing!